Gameday Guide For Families and Fans

Essential Reminders

• Fields: locations and layouts.
• Get There Early: Make sure you leave enough time to find your team and get settled.
• No Jewelry: No jewelry is allowed, including earring studs. View more specific gameday guidelines.
• Equipment: Shin guards are mandatory, and soccer cleats are highly recommended. Bring a water bottle, and don’t forget your jersey (socks, shorts, shirt).
• Respect the Referees: AYSO referees are volunteers. Their decisions are final on the field. If you have concerns, address them to [email protected], do not argue with the referees!
• Field Setup and Cleanup: If your team is playing the first game of the day on field, your team’s Field Coordinator is responsible for facilitating set up (goals and corner flags). If your team is playing the last game of the day on the field, your team’s Field Coordinator is responsible for facilitating clean up.
• Where to Sit: Spectators should position themselves on the designated sidelines. Always sit on the same side as your team - this promotes good sportsmanship and maintains a positive environment for players. 

Other Info

Before the Game:

• Check the Schedule: Confirm the game and arrival time, field location, and any special instructions from the coach or team manager. Arrive early to allow for parking, finding the field, and a relaxed warm-up.
• Communication with the Coach: If your child will be late or absent, inform the coach as soon as possible. If you have any concerns, address them with the coach privately and respectfully, outside of game time.
• Understand the Rules: Familiarize yourself with the basic rules of soccer and the AYSO philosophy of Kids Zone (see below).

During the Game:

• Be a Positive Cheerleader: Encourage all players on both teams with positive and supportive comments. Focus on effort, good plays, and teamwork. Avoid yelling instructions or criticisms at the players or referees.
• Support the Coaches: The coaches are volunteers dedicating their time to help the kids learn and enjoy the game. Trust their judgment and avoid undermining their instructions from the sideline.
• Let the Kids Play: Resist the urge to constantly shout instructions or direct your child's every move. Let them experience the game, make their own decisions, and learn from their experiences.
• Embrace the AYSO Philosophy: Remember that AYSO emphasizes positive coaching, good sportsmanship, player development, and participation. Winning is secondary to these core principles.

After the Game:

• Positive Reinforcement: Praise your child’s effort, teamwork, and sportsmanship, regardless of the outcome. Focus on specific positive actions you observed.
• Keep it Fun: Avoid replaying mistakes or dwelling on the score. Keep the post-game conversation light and focused on the positive aspects of the experience.
• Hydration and Nutrition: Ensure your child drinks water and has a healthy snack after the game to replenish their energy.
• Thank the Coach and Referee: A simple "thank you" goes a long way in acknowledging the volunteers who make these games possible.
• Team Spirit: Encourage your child to thank their teammates and congratulate the opposing team on a game well played.
• Leave No Trace: Please ensure you clean up any trash or belongings you brought to the field.

AYSO Kids Zone Pledge